The Vanishing Human in Customer Service
There’s a trend you’ve probably experienced lately, but you might not fully appreciate the forces at play. For decades, the gold standard for fixing a problem was simple: you pick up the phone, call customer service, and talk to a person. Today, that expectation is being dismantled by a massive push toward digital identity verification and automated systems designed to cut costs.
The Automated Customer Service Trap
More and more, you call a number only to get a machine. While we’re told AI will make this better, the reality isn’t there yet. Sometimes you just need a human being who understands nuances. We’ve all been there—shouting “AGENT” or “REPRESENTATIVE” into the receiver, hoping the system relents. Companies like Amazon and Meta are even notorious for hiding their direct lines.
I’ve personally had to resort to “billing threats” or claiming a technical glitch is actually a billing issue just to get transferred to a human. Then there are the web forms where you send a message into the void and pray for a response days later.
Why the Government is Leading the Shift
When it comes to financial matters, a human touch isn’t just a preference; it’s a necessity. I recently tried to assist a retiree with the Office of Personnel Management (OPM). Their phone system literally told me to use the website, which is the very thing I had already tried!
The shift toward digital identity verification is partly due to a shrinking workforce. Many government agencies have lost staff to retirement or forced resignation. One family member told me that at the IRS, the “level of service”—or the likelihood of reaching a human—once plunged to 5%. With April 15 approaching, that is a terrifying statistic if you have a math error or a dependent issue that needs a quick verbal fix.
Why You Need ID.me Sooner Than You Think
While you can do many things on your own, like requesting transcripts or 1099-R forms, the gateway has changed. Government sites now rely on digital identity verification services like login.gov or, more commonly, ID.me.
ID.me is a private company, not a government agency. Because their verification process can sometimes involve extra steps like uploading documents or video calls, you should set up an account for every adult in your household now. Don’t wait until you’re in an emergency. If you run into trouble, remember to contact ID.me support directly at help.id.me rather than the agency you are trying to access.
Becoming Your Own Agent
We are living in an era where organizations force you to be your own customer service agent. Just as we became the factory workers these days who assemble our own tables and toys, we are now the technicians managing our own digital identity verification. Setting up your accounts early is the only way to ensure you aren’t left behind when the machines stop answering.

